Leaders: What Drives Us to Need to Control Everything?

See the pitfalls of fear-based control and connect with the power of transparent leadership. This video unravels what drives the impulse to control, and how to lead authentically for more satisfying outcomes in our lives.

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Discover the power of leading with transparency in this thought-provoking video. While fear and control may have been prevalent leadership tactics in the past, embracing transparency offers superior benefits for both leaders and their teams. By letting go of fear and control, leaders can create an environment that inspires, builds trust, and fosters collaboration.

Transparency allows for open communication, inclusivity, and feedback loops that lead to higher-quality solutions. It also promotes a culture of empathy, vulnerability, and integrity.

This video encourages leaders to raise their self-awareness, embrace transparency, and reap the rewards of improved team performance, reduced stress, and greater organizational success.

Timestamps

00:00 Leadership Transparency vs. Control

00:51 The Stress and Tension of Control

01:47 The Downfalls of Fear and Control

03:21 Embracing Transparency for Effective Leadership

04:25 Nurturing an Environment of Trust and Inclusivity

05:36 Embracing Vulnerability and Listening in Leadership

06:01 Getting to Transparent Leadership

07:19 Embracing Transparency for Conscious Leadership

08:08 Outro

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